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Dear Zales: [Nov. 20th, 2009|09:02 am]
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Yes, I adore this shiny. I found it by accident last month. I thought it was gorgeous. I still do.

But now it's showing up in ads everywhere I go on the web, and it's driving me BONKERS - even moreso when I see the price has dropped on it, go to see how much, and discover it is Out Of Stock!!! That's just unkind of you.

Stop it.

Kthx<3,
Bliss
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I've been published! [Oct. 2nd, 2009|09:56 pm]
Twice at the beginning of the summer I had microfictions published by Circlet Press as Fiction Friday selections; my third just went up today. Under a thousand words, free to read, and I really hope you like it. If you read it, please comment there (and here too, if you like) - the zero is looking awfully sad!

Fruit of Knowledge, Seed of Truth
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*cracks the binding and blows dust off the pages* [Sep. 28th, 2009|10:31 am]
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I blame Twitter. No, seriously, it's eaten me a bit lately, and it's fun and all, but it fails at the unabashed outpouring of mental goo that has been my journalling wont. I've missed it. I've missed you guys.

How are you?

We've got a puppy now. She's 3 months old as of last weekend, and we named her Ember. She's a pretty good girl; still working on getting her housetrained. Some days are better than others.

Friday was our five year anniversary. Tiny Emperor went to stay with [info]unl33t and [info]erfalle, Littlest Admiral went to Grandma's, and [info]jarien was kind enough to watch over our puppyface, all so that [info]pgnblade and I could go to Northampton in MA for two nights. Overall, we had a great time - stayed in a place called The Autumn Inn which is SO classic New Englandy that I can't even STAND the cuteness of it all. The only think I would say was lacking for our needs was bacon at the continental breakfast. :D

Aside from that, the whole place was a fascinating mix of 1950's and modern hotel amenities. Our king size bed was two beds pushed together. The hallway carpet was bright red. The door used a KEY. Not a keycard, an actual key. There was a lock, a bolt, a chain lock. There was no hangtag - instead there was a switch to flip over one way to request maidservice, and the other way to label it Do Not Disturb. The bathroom had old yellow walls, but a curved shower rod. Side by side next to the door were a metal wall-mounted bottle opener, and an electric hair dryer (In prime position, mind you, to fall right into the toilet if one were to drop it while hanging it up). The desk was a DESK, with drawers, against the wall, not just a table with a lamp and phone on it. Wireless was free, and while slow in the way of wireless, had no dropped connection despite being in one of the farthest rooms away from the front desk.

The staff was really nice. I recommend the place, totally.

Aside from the hotel, which we did not spend much time in except when I was totally passed out (seriously, he was UNABLE to wake me until 11am on Friday. WTF?) Northampton is overall an adorable town. Blade kept talking about how like a sister city it was to Saratoga Springs. Very old, and extremely collegey and art, full of funky little shops and loads of personality. Toga could be like that again if they would stop making it so FREAKING expensive for non-chains to have storefronts around the main drag!

Anyway. We discovered that it was windy, and I had somehow managed to pack nothing that had sleeves, so we went in a funky little shop chock full of wraps and drapes and hats and gloves and shoes and neato dresses, and got me a gorgeous pashmina that is light and yet SO warm. Then we went in a men's shop where we started poking at hats, and let me just say that Blade looks EXTREMELY fine (You know, moreso than usual) in a bowler. He bought me a top hat. He says it's because it looks great on me (which it does!) but I still maintain it's also in small part so I'll stop taking his. ;)

We got some lovely wood and tortoiseshell spoons for our altar (may you never hunger) and I found (or was found by?) a small quartz sphere that replaces the one I'd had there until TTE tried to bounce it down the stairs... onto the tile floor. *rolls eyes*

Then we were walking down the street, and boom. People we know. Actually, first bumping into people we know was when we ran into my ex boyfriend from highschool. I am not making this up. Ran into my high school boyfriend while on vacation for my anniversary, and was able to do that whole, "Oh HI, yeah! This is my husband with whom I have two sons a house and a puppy. How've you been?" thing. Then shopping, then we ran into a photographer friend and her girlfriend, who we hadn't told we'd be in town because we were kind of hoping to just have the whole day to ourselves. It was really awesome to see their OMGHappeh! faces when they realized it was us, though.

I know at some point we had breakfast/lunch and for the life of me can't remember what or where.

We had to move the car, and when we were returning to our exploring we cut through a parking lot alongside a bank, where the women in the car at the drivethrough felt compelled to roll down their windows and tell me I looked awesome! I felt fantastic.

From there we went to a marvelous little used bookstore, and I gravitated into the mythology section, from which I departed with a 1942 edition of Bullfinch's Ages Of Mythology - but not before a little 2 year old boy toddled over to me and in utter silence proceeded to pull two handfulls of white gravel rocks out of his pockets to show off to me, and listened very intently as I complimented them, and then talked about being tall or small, like the bookshelves. His daddy was amused.

We walked around town a bit more, browsing and whatnot, and then went over to Webs, which had come highly recommended to my by several fiber arts friends. I have to admit, I was really disappointed by how limited was their selection of spinning items and fibers. I'd expected more than one 10x10 section of the store. For yarn selection, though, they were astounding, and I got to drool over some gorgeous floor looms.

And because Blade can't keep himself from spoiling me in spite of my misgivings, I left there with an Ashford Inklette loom, a pair of Lantern Moon ebony knitting needles, a Lantern Moon basket, a pick and a shuttle for my tabletop loom, and four skeins of a deliciously soft rich purple alpaca yarn. Knitting that yarn on those needles is like knitting with butter, if dairy could be repurposed for fiber arts!

Returning to downtown, we explored several more shops, including a guitar shop and a CD/DVD store, and then a place called Ten Thousand Villages, which has handmade knickknacks from villages and tribes all over the world. We'd apparently just missed a drum circle, but people were still milling around. We were browsing, and out of nowhere this little 7-ish year old girl came running up to me. "Hi! I love the way you're dressed!"

Her name was Samaya, and she was adorable. We chatted, and I complimented her necklace before we headed out again.

Dinnertime had arrived, and so Blade took me to his favorite restaurant in Northampton - a chinese/japanese fusion place called Teapot.

Ooh, I just remembered our lunch! We went to a little Tibetan place and shared several delicious appetizers, including some sliced yak sausage. Have you ever had yak? It's kind of like... I'd say it was like Kielbasa without any of the grease.

But yes. Dinner. Teapot. It was cute, and delicious; we indulged in appetizers and entrees, and I enjoyed a glass of plum wine. The Teapot Bento Box was marvelous - Teriyaki steak, california roll, vegetables, rice, and shrimp tempura. He got the dragon and phoenix, and while he says the shrimp was a bit lacking, the General Tso's side of the dish was divine in that melt-in-the-mouth kind of way.

After that we went and wandered through some shops a bit more, picking up presents for the children and getting some ice cream from a place that Blade is totally enamoured of, but mostly I didn't find to be anything special. The fact that all the tables were full and that we had to share our sundae while I shivered in the street may have contributed just a bit to my lacklustre impression, I must admit.

Finally we went to meet up with the abovementioned friends, as they told us there was going to be an open mic night at the local pizza place and they'd love to see us there. We spent far too much time sitting on metal cafe tables in the cold, and finally were able to get inside, where our friend got her turn to sing. She did a brilliant rendition of Sarah Maclachlan's "Angel" followed by a song that it was simply too noisy to much hear - which is particularly sad, because it was something she chose to sing just for us, for our anniversary. Le sigh. Then Blade got up and did some songs, followed by a friend of our friends who did a harmonica piece called Dragon's Lullaby. He's apparently been playing harmonica since he was five, and it shows in the easy skill he has with it; the tune was haunting, and in several places it sounded like multiple mouthharps in harmony. Note to self, must ask friends to ask him to record it so I can listen to it again and again...

Finally we called it a night, and headed back to the hotel, watched a little bit of some show on HBO about a writer pretending to be a private detective, and went to sleep. I didn't sleep very well, and 7am found me awake and maudlin and messing about on my computer until Blade awoke and we motivated ourselves to packing, heading down to continental breakfast, and finally checking out to hit the road around half ten.

Home again home again, jiggety jig, and puppy, kid, and kid all came back to us... along with a spare kid for the hell of it, so [info]un33t and [info]erfalle could have a night of it.

Five years ago I was on a boat beach... actually, strike that strike, five years ago might even have been the day we took the boat to bird island.

There were lizards.
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We (might) be getting a puppy! [Jul. 24th, 2009|02:49 pm]
Someone posted on Craigslist today, 7 puppies for salem so I called the guy right away. He just called back and gave me the lowdown; the mother is a black lab "mix" (might be purebred, but they don't have papers so they don't know), and the father is a chesapeake bay retriever, purebred, that belongs to the neighbors. SOMEbody hopped the fence, heh heh heh....

They were born five weeks ago yesterday, went to the vet that first day, are going for another checkup today. They'll be good to leave the mother probably in two weeks.

We're going over to meet the puppies on Sunday. Eeeee!
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Why the Blogathon? [Jul. 24th, 2009|08:58 am]
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"Oh Bliss!" (You may ask,) "[info]shadesong has been doing her [info]blogforbarcc for years now! Do they really need help? What can they do that hasn't already been done or put in place?"

Let me show you.

That link goes to a CNN story about an 8 year old girl in Arizona that was just raped by four boys, ranging in age from 9 to 14. Three of them lived in her apartment complex. She was supposed to be in the care of her 23-year-old sister, who has refused to be identified when she talked to reporters. And what did she say about her sister's sexual assault?

"I came to her and said it's not good for you to be following guys because you are still little," the sister told KTVK. She also said that she wanted the suspects to be released from jail because "we are the same people."

"When she comes back I'm going to tell her don't ever do that again because all of us, we are the same family, we are from the same place. Now she is just bringing confusion among us. Now the other people, they don't want to see her," the sister told KTVK.


This is just some of the many things that BARCC tries to change - the assault was not that little girl's fault. The focus of the family should not be that she has shamed them by being made a sexual victim, and yet that is how they look at this - as if that little girl has done something wrong. Her own family is asking that the boys that assaulted their daughter, their sister, be released, to keep from making turmoil in the community, to keep from having shame on their family name.

BARCC does so many things to prevent this kind of thinking, to educate. They don't just help victims right after point of assault, although the fact that they do is huge. They help talk to survivors' families, to make sure that there is understanding and support for them following the ordeal. They go to schools, and work to educate communities. They teach, in a most basic sense, that rape is WRONG. There's still largely a culture of shame and silence about sexual crimes. We learn as young children that stealing is wrong, hitting is wrong - too few people ever try to teach children that fondling is wrong, raping is wrong, and I imagine partially because it would involve talking about sex with kids. Discuss SEX, with KIDS? Gasp! Think of the children!

Think of the children, indeed.

Auctions: http://community.livejournal.com/blogforbarcc/
Main post: http://shadesong.livejournal.com/3907512.html
Sponsorship link: http://www.blogathon.org/pledge.php?blogid=58
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None of this is me, but it struck me. [Jul. 22nd, 2009|11:46 am]
"See, if we are to assume that some people are born in the wrong bodies - which is something I do believe, because few people are going to lop off perfectly working body parts, inject themselves with hormones, subject themselves to gruelling and oft-humiliating medical procedures, potentially alienate family members, and up their risk of being beaten to death simply because they woke up one morning and had some mild whim to be a man instead of a woman - then what we have is not a transformation.

It's a restoration.

We're getting you back to the body you should have had at birth. The body you've had all these years is uncomfortable, and the people around you want you to act in ways that make you itch, and we're just tweaking an error of nature to get you to where you should have been. It's not a transformation as we generally understand it - there is transformation involved, but the goal is to get you closer to where you feel you should have been." -TheFerrett
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BLOGATHON! [Jul. 22nd, 2009|09:50 am]
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[mood | calm]

Not me, but [info]shadesong - this Saturday is going to be her annual Blogathon and auction to benefit BARCC (Boston Area Rape Crisis Center. Every half hour for 24 hours, she'll be posting the poetry and stories that inspired the pieces that she's auctioning.

You can see the larger explanation for the blogathon and auction here - and check out the auctions, either by scrolling down, or using the links in the sidebar on the right. You bid in the comments - and please note that I (and also [info]dulcinbradbury, who a lot of you know) have contributed for the auction!

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Inspired by [info]shadesong's short story "She tastes like coffee." Mixed media, mostly acrylic and ground coffee.

Auctions will be open until 11:59pm EST on Monday, July 27th.
For more info on the Blogathon, the auctions, why [info]shadesong does this, and most of all what kind of work BARCC does and why it's so important, please - Go read.
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iLoveit. [Jul. 17th, 2009|09:39 am]
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[mood | bouncy]

Yeah, still totally adoring my new shiny, with it's pretty red-and-black Frogz cover and everything. Been checking out a bunch of different apps, mostly free, except for Distant Shore, which is a notes-in-a-bottle thing that reminds me of tying postcards to the strings of helium balloons and letting them float away.

The other app I plunked down cash for is a little game called Myst. I played this game when it first came out, obsessively, to completion. Me and my brother. Every day. For three months straight. It was one of the few times that we ever collaborated on anything to a great extent, and I think, looking back, we both grew closer and got a lot smarter (or at least better at complicated problem-solving) in the process.

Playing it now, on the iPhone... well, it's a good what, 15 years later? It's still beautiful, even on the small screen, and the movement is brilliant. It's like somehow back then they could have predicted the rise of the iPhone, and planned out the click-movement accordingly. Walking the island is like coming home - but it's like coming home someplace where you don't remember any of the locks or keycodes, and you have to fiddle with everything.

Just like the first time... I'm doing this puppy without cheats or a walkthrough. Pure gaming.
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iGot. [Jul. 7th, 2009|11:45 am]
Yeah, yeah, I know, it's a bandwagon and now I'm on it, tooting away. I got myself an iPhone, because last week [info]pgnblade looked at the costs and fees and realized that if I got an iPhone with a 2 year contract and added myself as a line to his account with a family plan, the phone would be paid for by the difference from my old plan to this new one in a span of 8 months, and thereafter we'd be saving about $15 a month.

It came yesterday, and we got it charged, activated, and switched me over. Last night and this morning I've been poking at apps. I know a bunch of you are iPhone users - what apps do you recommend? What free ones are actually good, and what non-free ones are worth paying for?

I'm getting this case for it, in the red/black combo. I bought it on Amazon.com though, for less than half the list. Yay, Amazon!
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I'm published! (Again!) [Jun. 26th, 2009|01:32 pm]
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[mood | excited]

Go to Circlet 2.0 to read my new microfiction, "The Spy Who..."

Permalink is here.

Go, read, enjoy - and leave me a comment there!



(I need a Writing icon)
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I feel so nifty! [Jun. 25th, 2009|09:18 am]
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[mood |accomplished]

Yesterday was a day of awesome. I won tickets to see RENT at Proctors!

Then I spent a good chunk of the day lurking on Beth Wylde's yahoo group, interjecting here and there as some really neat authors introduced themselves and shared excepts of their work (Some of it was truly astounding - if you're looking for some good M/M work, take a gander at Samhain!). One of the authors there was [info]mychael_black2 - he did a little contest to give away two signed copies of one of his books. I won one of them!

Better yet, I got to spend a good chunk of the day chitchatting with him, and pointed him toward Spaced. Not only did he make me blush with his enjoyment of it, but he has gone so far as to rec me in his livejournal!

The clouds, kids. I'm walking on them.

And in related news, Circlet accepted another of my microfictions, and it will be going up on Friday June 26 - that's right, tomorrow! I'll link all y'all when it's up there, and look forward as always to hearing what you think!

Now, to figure out what to do with this odd little concept I've come up with regarding grue... and also a m/m SF piece for LPBurka.... and there's a half-finished story that I meant to be a microfic that's probably going to be a short story....

*hums happily as Muse gets free rein to putter about in her mind*
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And now we are four. [Jun. 24th, 2009|06:35 am]
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Happy Birthday, Tiny Emperor!



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Linkdump [Jun. 23rd, 2009|09:57 am]
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[mood |busy]

Torture Memos and the Bush Administration: Time to move on - gues blog on NJvoices

Auto-meme - CLICK FACE, RECEIVE MEME

NH Sheep and Wool Festival - clearly it's been too long since my last linkdump, this took place in early May

Geeksugar - Who's geekier?

Shoooooooes! - ohmygodshoes.

Come again? - If your sperm were used for data storage... (Screenshot of a 4chan/b/ thread)

LJ Connect - how many steps does it take to get from your journal to another user?

Sneaky Ninja Entrepreneurs - a BUNNY comic

Go Gentle Into That Good Night - Roger Ebert on death and dying.

Twitter Signal-to-Noise ratio - for @Blissmorgan

Spaced - by Andrea Howe at Circlet.com

Scientists Trying to Outflank HIV/AIDS Virus - Time Magazine online

Tinsmith - a band

Yfrog - for sharing vids and pics on Twitter

15 Vintage Sexist Ads

Camouflage Art

Random optical Illusions

Image: A cupless, crotchless lingerie garment NSFW - ....where is that third hand COMING from?!


Corset Connection

Corset that makes me go ooh. - Corset Connection

Fairy Gothmother - UK Corsetierre



Big Gals Lingerie - found while looking for lingerie for larger women like myself... and wtf. Does extra poundage somehow drag good taste right out of our brains, in their estimation?


The Littlest Admiral has only the finest of box-hats.


Menstrual Painting



Lelo Nea - it's a vibrator that looks rather like a mouse. NSFW dependant on how well you can get away with looking at sex toys.

Lelo Inez gold vibrator - Potentially NSFW. This vibrator sold for over $10K!

NASA Picture of the Day - from 6/4/9, Sunspots

Ea's Artlog - the blog of an artist who sketches in moleskines

NSFW Steampunk sex machine

166 songs Banned by Clear Channel after 9/11/2001 - includes:
Louis Armstrong - “What a Wonderful World.”
The Beatles - “Lucy in the Sky with Diamonds.”
Buddy Holly and the Crickets - “That’ll Be the Day.”
The Drifters - “On Broadway.”
Elton John - “Bennie and the Jets.”
Frank Sinatra - “New York New York.”
Lynyrd Skynyrd - “Tuesday’s Gone.”
Tom Petty - “Free Fallin’”
Red Hot Chili Peppers - “Under the Bridge.”

TinyURL.com

SPIN presents Liner Notes with Amanda Palmer and Neil Gaiman

Labbit!

Nedroid.com - A comic strip



Orbit Books is looking for a summer intern in NYC

That's how I roll.

CrossedGenres.com Flash Fiction Contest - is currently in the voting phase, ends 6/30

Creative Advertisements that make you Look Twice

Censorship = Boring - Florida high school valedictorian forced to rewrite speech

....and here's The original speech that was rejected

Warning Labels

All Things Renaissance.com - nice leather boots.

How to get a Book Deal

100 Awesome Open Source Tools for Writers, Journalists, and Bloggers

8 Fictional Suburbs With Hideous, Dark Secrets

Trent Reznor deals with trolls by walking away from social Media - on SethSimonds.com

Twisted Princesses

Virtual Firefly - Here's How It Might Have Been....





Catherynn M. Valente, author of Palimpsest, needs you to read:

catherynnemvalente.com/fairyland
I will start posting chapters of a full-length novel version of The Girl Who Circumnavigated Fairyland in a Ship of Her Own Making. I will be writing it in real time, posting every Monday. It will be free to read--but please know that the sheer calories to make my brain create it require funding, and I would very much appreciate your support. Pay whatever you like for it, whatever you think it's worth. It's kind of like an old-fashioned rent party. There's a button at the bottom of the post to start things out.

This is a book about a little girl named September who gets herself a ticket to Fairyland on the back of The Green Wind and a somewhat cranky Leopard. There she discovers the realm of the capricious Marquess and the dangers of the Perverse and Perilous Sea. It is going to be something else.

And yes, you can read it to your kids. This is my first available YA novel, and everyone can read it for free.

catherynnemvalente.com/fairyland
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Come chat! [Jun. 16th, 2009|05:39 am]
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Circlet Press authors are ahving a chat day on Beth Wylde's Yahoo group: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/bethwylde/

Please come join other readers interested in gay, lesbian, bi, trans literature of various forms. (including non-erotic forms like mystery etc) - and say hi to me while you're there, pretty please!
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If you please, [Jun. 15th, 2009|09:56 am]
...a prompt? Word or picture.
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I win at Garage Sales. [Jun. 14th, 2009|05:03 pm]
This weekend was the village-wide garage sale, and I spent some time driving around with The Tiny Emperor. I scored a Lawn Buddy for me for $5 (normally $68), and an old but functional Black and Decker Circ Saw for Blade for another $5.

The woman at that yard sale adored TTE, and even though I bought him a VTech V-smile DeskPro for $1 (Normally $125), she also up and GAVE him about 7 other toys, including a Fisher Price Bus (normally $70) and a Little People Discovery City (normally $55), missing the buildings, but he loves it already for racing his little cars on.

We also hit the perennial sale at one of the churches, and there I picked up a Little Tikes Double Easel (normally $80) and a Little People Animal Sounds Farm (normally $65) for $5 each.

For those of you not bothering to do the math, I spent $21 and got $463+ worth of awesome.

I rock me.
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I'm trying to find an article... [Jun. 9th, 2009|12:02 pm]
It was at least a year ago, possibly as much as two, about a man how has journalled obsessively for the last 50-60 years. Ring a bell with anybody?
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(no subject) [Jun. 8th, 2009|12:11 pm]
From @eroticawriter on Twitter, the following:

Slain woman met suspect on Craigslist in search of baby clothes. http://bit.ly/17M8YO We must ban clothing ads to avert future tragedies.

Her comment on the article is wry, but the article itself is rather heartrending. A 21 year old woman, 8 months pregnant, just moved across country from MD to OR to be with her fiance, and met up with another woman contacted via Craiglist to receive baby clothes. The young woman was killed, and her baby taken from her womb.

It's a terrible tragedy, and my heart goes out to her fiance and her family.

after reading the article, my gaze dropped to the first comment beneath:

Posted by somtaaw on 06/07/09 at 10:57AM

This kind of thing makes me sick. I've watched the crime rates move higher for the last 3 years.
We have gone from bicycle teft to murder, in a very short time. Is this the Portland metro area? Feels more like Newark N.J.
Hanging is too good for her.
Burning is too good for her.
She should be torn into itsy pieces and buried alive.




The horrible irony in this makes me literally nauseous, and the worst part is that I'm certain that this "somtaaw" doesn't even realize it.
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I am PUBLISHED! [May. 22nd, 2009|02:02 pm]
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[mood | Eeeeeeeeee!]

Circlet Press (which has an lj community, [info]circletpress) selected an erotic microfiction I wrote to be featured on its front page as part of their new weekly feature, Fiction Fridays. You can see the piece right now at Circlet 2.0, and it will remain permalinked even after the week is up, here.

Go, read, and please leave me a comment there! (Comments here are nice too.)

Many thanks to [info]octoberland, without whose notice of open call for submission via Facebook I might never have thought to submit there, and to [info]pgnblade for putting up with supporting my crazy writer habit all these years!
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Twitterverse [May. 19th, 2009|11:26 am]
[mood | calm]
[music |Thea Gilmore - Ever Fallen in Love]

Do you tweet?
What's your handle?
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